| Chap Goh Meh
the Night of
Romance
A fascinating
Chap Goh Meh legend tells the story of a lonely young man who, during
an outing on this very significant night, was suddenly enraptured by the
most beautiful sight he ever laid eyes on. Who was this exquisitely delicate
beauty driving by in all her finery, he wondered. Despite the excitement
pounding in his heart, the hopeful young gentleman quickly jotted down the
number of her car, lest he forgot.
The very next day, he made
enquiries as to who the car belonged to, and finally obtained the car owner's
address. With great haste, he requested his mother to send a matchmaker to
his dream girl's home to arrange the marriage. In his rush, the star-crossed
optimist did not realise that the girl he had seen was not the daughter of
the house but a visiting niece. And so on his wedding day, the poor groom
found that instead of the radiant smiling girl he had expected, he was married
to her fat and rather plain cousin. The story does have a rather happy ending
though, as his wife was a wealthy woman!
Chap Goh Meh goes
by a few names. In Mandarin it is called Yuan Xiao, but in the traditional
Hokkien dialect of Penang, Chap Goh Meh means the 15th night of Chinese
New Year. It is celebrated with prayers and offerings to mark the end of
the Chinese New Year. During this auspicious occasion, houses are brightly
decorated with lights and lanterns are hung over the balcony or five-foot
ways for the last day of the Chinese New Year. Prayers to the ancestors are
offered. Despite a ban, firecrackers are lit as a 'send-off' to the new year.
The next day, people go back to work, businesses operate as usual and everyone
is looking forward to the next Chinese New Year.
Various activities are
planned to mark this very traditional occasion but the two mainstays are
the Dondang Sayang and orange/tangerine throwing ceremony. In the
morning, nyonya households will distribute pengat, a sweet and rich broth
of tubers and bananas to relatives and friends. As evening falls, the atmosphere
relaxes as the gentle strains of Dondang Sayang fill the air. Dondang
Sayang, literally meaning lullaby of love, is an interplay of sung poetry,
usually revolving around the theme of love, between a man and a woman, each
trying to outwit the other in the name of affection whilst traditional music
plays in the background.
In the past, Chap Goh
Meh was one of the few occasions where eligible young ladies, transformed
into scorching beauties, were allowed out from the confines of their homes.
Eager gentlemen could only admire longingly at all the passing beauties,
as the lovely ladies were always accompanied by an entourage of the fiercest
looking aunts and amahs (servants)! These young maidens (and spinsters) would
throw oranges into the sea as a gesture of hope to wed good husbands. To
keep this quaint tradition alive in modern times, orange throwing has
transmogrified into a competition of sorts, where oranges thrown into the
sea by girls (single or otherwise) would be scooped up by boys in boats.
The boat with most oranges would be declared the winner.
Written by
William Chow & Raja Abdul Razak. |